Starting graduate studies has forced me to rearrange my schedule, drop certain activities, and really look at my priorities. One priority that I insist on making number 1 is my family. I don’t want my family to ever feel that I put school, or a future job made possible by school, before them.
This week’s dilemma? Hoob’s 16th birthday. How do I make it special for her and still meet my school, church, and other family obligations? Hoob’s birthday is on Friday which also happens to be a full-day youth conference for our stake (group of congregations in our church). Here are my ideas to make the day as fun as possible for her:
*I had her choose the shoes she wants for her birthday from zappos.com and we ordered them last week. They should arrive before her birthday.
*Even though we will be visiting four historical sites in SLC during the day with other youth and leaders from our stake which makes it hard to celebrate her birthday, I have arranged with one of the ward (congregation) leaders to buy a birthday cake. We will keep it secret from Hoob until we break for lunch and then we will pull it out and have the youth and leaders from our ward sing happy birthday to her and then share the cake.
*I will make sure to take pictures of the cake activity.
*Tomorrow afternoon I will put homework on hold and I will take Hoob shopping for new capris and flip-flops–the rest of her birthday presents.
*I always give my kids a chance to go to lunch or breakfast with me on their birthday for some one-on-one time with me. Because of the youth conference starting early, making it necessary to eat a quick breakfast at home, and then including lunch and dinner as part of youth conference, Hoob and I will, instead, go to see a movie together that night as our one-on-one time. The movie she has chosen? “Green Lantern.” Once again, homework will be put on hold.
*Of course I will wish her a happy birthday on facebook so that others can know it is her birthday.
*Hoob, or course, is anxious to get her driver’s license. With Friday’s schedule being what it is, we will go Monday afternoon as soon as I am done with class to pick up her license.
I am hoping these ideas will help Hoob to have a special day. Hoob is so good-natured, I really don’t have anything to worry about, but it really is about…
…making family #1!
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June 16, 2011 at 12:48 am
Family is always first with me too
June 16, 2011 at 12:49 am
Happy birthday to Hoob! I hope she has a great day!
June 16, 2011 at 1:11 am
Sounds a lot more fun than my 16th turned out to be! You’re an awesome momma, as always. (Oh, and I’m back to blogging if you remember me!)
June 16, 2011 at 9:46 pm
I’m sure her birthday is going to be fantabulous. I was going to suggest an early breakfast as part of her special day but it looks like you got that covered too. I was just reading Susan Lucci’s book and she described how on really buys days that she couldn’t get off, she’d gather her family for special occasion breakfasts and it’s a tradition that both of her children have carried on.
PS. Pics of the new shoes please.
June 16, 2011 at 9:47 pm
That should read “really busy days.”
June 17, 2011 at 1:25 am
Happy Birthday to Hoob! I am sure she thought it was just great since you are such a great Mom!!